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NDIS & Support

Language Script for Perpetration Disclosures

This framework provides guidance for support workers responding to a client's disclosure of sexual perpetration. The approach balances validation, safety, professional boundaries, and appropriate action...

NDIS & Support

Trauma-Informed Care and Language in Sexual Wellness

Trauma can have a profound impact on how someone experiences their body, relationships, and sexuality.

Relationships

Dating and Socialising Tips

Whether it’s your first time chatting online or meeting someone in person, dating and socialising can bring excitement, and sometimes nerves. These practical tips can help you stay safe, comfortable and confident throughout the experience.

Consent

The Foundation of Healthy Connection - Informed Consent

Sexual consent is more than a legal requirement - it’s a cornerstone of respect, safety, and human connection.

Disability & Sexuality

Defining Sexual Health

When we talk about sexual health, sexuality, sexual rights, sexual wellbeing, and sexual wellness, it’s easy to assume they all mean the same thing, but they don’t!

Identity, Gender & LGBTQIASB+

Queer Joy, Intimacy & Pleasure: Reclaiming Sexual Wellness

For years, conversations about LGBTQIASB+ sexual health have focused on risk and prevention.But what if we flipped the script?

Identity, Gender & LGBTQIASB+

Queer, Proud & Disabled: Let’s Talk About Sexual Health and Wellness

When we talk about sexual health and wellness, people with disability are often left out of the conversation, and even more so if they’re part of the LGBTQIASB+ community.

NDIS & Support

Case Study 1: Supporting NDIS Participants in Safe Sexual Exploration

Working in the NDIS sector, support goes far beyond day-to-day care. One area that often receives less attention, but is vital to holistic wellbeing, is helping participants safely explore their sexual expression while staying within the scope of your role.

NDIS & Support

Case Study 2: Supporting NDIS Participants in Safe Gender Exploration

Supporting participants to explore gender identity is another vital part of holistic wellbeing. Many participants have not had opportunities to understand or express their gender fully, and support workers often become the trusted people they turn to for guidance.

FAQs

Looking for more clarity before you reach out? Here are some common questions to help you feel more confident and informed.

Is masturbation an incident under the NDIS guidelines

Masturbation by itself when done privately, safely, and consensually, is not an incident under the NDIS. People with disability have the same rights to sexual expression, privacy, and bodily autonomy as anyone else. However, it can become an NDIS incident (and in some cases a reportable incident) depending on the context: 1. Not an incident - The person is masturbating in private and not causing harm to themselves or others. → This is a normal, healthy behaviour. Support workers should uphold the person’s privacy and dignity. 2. An incident - The behaviour happens in a public or shared space, or in front of others without consent. → This may be an incident because it could cause distress to others or indicate the person needs support or education about privacy and boundaries. 3. A reportable incident - If the behaviour involves harm, coercion, or lack of consent (for example, someone being touched without consent, or the person is being exploited), then it becomes a reportable incident under the NDIS Commission. Also, if a provider’s response to the behaviour involves the unauthorised use of a restrictive practice (like seclusion or restraint), that too must be reported. In summary: Masturbation isn’t automatically an incident. It’s only considered one if there’s harm, lack of consent, privacy violation, or inappropriate response from a provider.

Can NDIS funding cover sexual wellness supports?

Currently, NDIS funding does not cover sex workers or sexual services. However, it may fund related supports like sexual health education, psychological support, or occupational therapy related to intimacy or relationships.

What if someone with a disability displays sexual behaviour in public?

This doesn’t automatically mean something is “wrong.” It may indicate the person needs: Support understanding privacy. Access to education about appropriate settings. Or sometimes, medical or emotional support if the behaviour is new or distressing. It should be handled respectfully, not punitively.

Are sexual feelings normal for people with disabilities?

Absolutely. All people, regardless of ability, experience sexual feelings, attraction, and desire. Acknowledging and respecting these feelings is part of holistic wellbeing. Sexuality is a natural part of being human, and people living with a disability enjoy pleasure, intimacy, and relationships just as much as anyone else. Education, support, and adaptive strategies help navigate barriers.

Are there adaptive tools or assistive technology for sexual pleasure?

Yes. There is a growing range of adaptive sex toys and assistive devices designed to make sexual activity and intimacy more accessible for people with physical, sensory, or cognitive differences. These tools aim to accommodate mobility limitations, sensory sensitivities, or difficulties with dexterity, allowing individuals to explore pleasure safely and comfortably.

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About The Hunnybee Collective

The Hunnybee Collective is your trusted hub for inclusive sexual wellness education, resources, and support. Whether you're seeking guidance, connection, or confidence, we’re here to help you feel seen, heard and empowered.